Showing posts with label bullying at the work place. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bullying at the work place. Show all posts

4.9.13

WHY DO THY BULLY/ABUSE EACHOTHER?




BULLYING CAN BE CLASSIFIED IN TWO CATEGORIES:

 
 Direct bullying: 

 Direct bullying involves a great deal of physical abuse and aggression, such as shoving and poking, throwing things, slapping, choking, punching and kicking, beating, stabbing, pulling hair, scratching, biting, scraping, and pinching.

Indirect bullying: 

Indirect bullying which is called social aggressiveness, attempting to socially isolate the victim. This isolation is achieved through a wide variety of techniques, including spreading gossip, refusing to socialize with the victim, bullying other people who wish to socialize with the victim, and criticizing the victim's manner of dress, and other socially-significant markers this includes the victim's race, religion, disability, sex, or sexual preference, etc..

      an array of nonviolent behavior which can be considered indirect bullying, at least in some instances, such as name calling, the silent treatment, arguing others into submission, manipulation, false gossip, lies, false rumors, staring, giggling, and laughing at the victim. Saying certain words that will trigger a memory form a victim’s pasted event and mocking can be devastating for the victim.  Act Against Bullying, was set up in to help children who were victims of this type of bullying by researching and publishing coping skills.

OVERVIEW OF THE KIND OF ABUSE



     THE  OVER VIEW OF KINDS OF ABUSE:

  Overview of State Anti-Bullying Legislation and Other Related Laws, notes that, as of January2012, 48 U.S. states had anti-bullying laws. Though there is wide variation in their strength and focus. Sixteen states acknowledge that bullies often target their victims based on creed or religion, disability, gender or sex, nationality or national origin, race, and sexual orientation.  Each of those sixteen states has a certain wide array of additional notes, ranging from age and weight to socioeconomic status. Of the Thirty eight states that have laws encompassing electronic or cyber bullying activity. Thirty two states put such offenses under the broader category of bullying.


There are Three types of abuse : 


1.       Emotional:  

            Also referred to as mental abuse, it’s a form of abuse  displayed  by a person or persons subjecting or exposing another to behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, depression, or P.T.S.D, also known as ( post- traumatic stress Disorder).
            Such abuse is often associated with situations of power imbalance, such as abusive relationships, family or domestic issues, bullying, and abuse in the workplace.

2.        Verbal: 
      
           Negative defining statements or words told to the person or about the person or by withholding any response defining a victim as non-existent. If the abuser doesn't immediately apologize for his/her defining statements or words, the relationship may be a verbally abusive one.
     In schools a young person may indulge in verbal abuse or bullying to gain status as superior to the person or victim and to make friends with others who intern become abusers. Generally the bully knows no other way of making friends, i.e., using language that degrades another at the expense of someone else.  Verbal abuse is not limited, verbal abuse is found in bullying, family and or domestic relationships.

3.       Physical:  
       
             An act of another party involving contact intended to cause physical pain, or other physical bodily injuries.  In most cases, children are the victims of physical abuse, but adults can be the sufferers too. Physically abused children are at risk for future personal problems such as
aggressive behavior. The abused often becomes the abuser scenario will often come to pass and, or the adolescents are at a much greater risk for substance abuse. Often the symptoms of depression, emotional distress, and suicidal tendencies are also common features of people who have been physically abused. Not just children but adults with a history of physical abuse usually suffer from P.T.S.D also known as post traumatic stress disorder.   

3.9.13

WHAT A BULLY / AND BEHAVIORS



 BULLYING BEHAVIORS:


     Bullying is the use of coercion to abuse or intimidate others. The behavior involves  of verbal or physical power. Bullying can includes inappropriate verbal harassment or threat, physical assault or coercion and may be directed repeatedly towards particular victims, perhaps on grounds of class, race, religion, gender, sexuality, appearance, behavior, or ability, or disability.  If bullying is done by a group, it is called mobbing. The victim of bullying is sometimes referred to as a "target".

     Bullying can be defined in many different ways. Some countries currently have no legal definition of bullying, while some U.S. states have laws against it. Bullying consists of several basic types of abuse – emotional, verbal, physical, and cyber. Any type of bullying typically involves subtle methods of coercion such as intimidation.

     Bullying ranges from simple one on one bullying. To more aggressive bullying in which the bully may have one or more friends who may seem to be willing to assist the bully in his or her bullying activities. Bullying in school and the workplace is also referred to as peer abuse.

      A bullying culture can develop in any context in which human beings interact with each other. This includes school, family, the workplace, home, and neighborhoods. In a 2012 study of male adolescent boys, the strongest predictor was the perception of whether the most influential in the males life would approve of the bullying behavior.

    Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behavior intended to hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.

bullying occurs when a person is:
    Exposed repeatedly overtime to negative actions on the part of one, Or more persons.  He says negative actions occur when a person intentionally inflicts injury or discomfort upon another person, through physical contact, through verbal abuse or in other ways.